If it's only a sea cadet corps rule that you can't be friends with instructors on facebook, and not the law, what's the most they can do to stop you?
And does it make any difference if me and the instructor (female) are only 2 years different age wise, and in the same form group and maths class in sixth form?
PLUS we've known each other since before either of us were part of the corps. . . .
or are you just going to say; rules are rules, live with it!?