They are. I know them. Have known them for years and have been away with them. They will be drunk before they get to the hotel...and that's the way they will stay.
They are unpopular Sqad because you speak about your experiences as if you believe that all males are like you. You seem to find it hard to respect the fact that they are not. That some men have, and always will, stand by their morals.
salla....the motto was "homo sum nihil a me alienum p.uto"
No idea why the Ed wouldn´t accept it in it´s original form.
When I started at Med School, I thought what a bloody stupid motto, but as I have travelled hesitantly through the pathways of life, I have come to realise how apt is the message.
Have you ever stopped to think that what goes on on holiday when you are with them may be very different to what goes on when you are not there?! Incidently our opinions on 'good decent men' varies greatly - not sure I would describe them as such if they are already drunk before they arrive at their hotel!! Remember, alcohol can lower inhibitions and affect good-decision making...
Doesn't much matter when the stag do is if you're insecure in your relationship and worry about the fidelity of your partner. He could just as easily play away on a Friday night out with the boys.
notnotnot -I think it would be normal to worry.Obviously not all people have insecurities but most have.
However IMO-the mind may be willing but I can assure you that no other part of them will be -so relax.Its bravado -ive been to Amsterdam about 6 or 7 times and witnessed the 'schoolboys' looking in the 'sweetie shop window'
Its a well known adage that prozzies in Amsterdam dont have sex as much as you would think -thats why they take the money first ;)
someone at work went to a stag do in Hamburg. He was relating to me how all the quiet, family men on the plane over were well beahved. A bit of drink in them and they were the first up the Reiperbahn.
i think all of them paid for some kind of sexual favour, maybe not full-on. TBH not paying for it is like going to Paris and not going up the Eiffel Tower.
If you're going to Amsterdam without the view to either getting stoned or laid then you might as well save the air fare and have the stag do in Eastbourne.
I am not 'judging' anyone by 'my' standards. I am a bloke, I have known blokes all my life. I think I might have just a little more insight into blokes than a girl might. I don't take drugs and I don't get drunk, these are my standards but I have known a lot of blokes get stoned, get pissed, and sh@g around as soon as they are away from their wife /girlfriend. I am answering the question. I can only give my opinion, that was it.
You might get a different answer from a nun.