Useless at interviews

[dorisday]

I have the chance to go for another job with the same company. Its not a promotion, more a sideways move. The only problem is I get really nervous, even my appraisal normally turns me into a jibbering wreck. I am normally quite a confident person, not over confident. I can cope with normal everyday life, its just sitting in a room infront of three people. I deal with the public in person and on the phone and I am fine.My problem is that I have almost certainly decided not to apply for the job, but I don't want my employers thinking I can't be bothered. Should I have a word with my immediate boss and tell him my problem

[snapdharlich]

First of all - Breathe deeply.  I run a business with 35 employees and wish dearly that my staff could care enough to move up the rankings - so to speak.  By chomping at the bit of improving your career standing, it shows determination and courage, plus that you care about what you are doing and believe me, if you are doing your job well at the moment then your employer will automatically favour you - Better the devil you know! - It should be easier for them to fill a situation vacant lower down the chain of command than higher. They WILL be on your side. Don't panic (easier said than done) Employers don't want to scare people - They need you as much as you need them. It may not always seem this way and they won't let you see it, but that's the truth. I know you said that you don't want to apply - Go for it, Life is short and friends are few. You might even get a raise. Good luck whatever you decide. Speak to your boss if you need to - you will get their respect if you are truthful and honest - They may even put in a good word for you.

[joko]

i get the same way. Buy some Kalms. Buy some Rescue Remedy - its a bach flower remedy designed to calm you down particularly at times of stress and for exams or tests etc. also get some lavender essential oil and take deep sniffs. do all this before hand and you should be much calmer. and remember - whats the worst that can happen? good luck

[alphamale]

Yup,have aword with your boss. See if you can have a 'wandering about the place' informal type interview - more of a chat but for longer where your interviewer can ask the questions in a more realistic environment. I did this - it was so easy and relaxing. I had to go through the formal interview as well which was awful. They gave me the job on the strength of my informal interview.

See if your boss will let you do it this way. I hope I've explained it OK.