I need advise now, esp. from the men!!

[HAnn521]

To all those of you who have helped me before...I need your advice again now, more than ever...

I would like to ask, and mainly the guys' opinion...

If you are upset and disappointed in your girlfriend, who you feel is needy, and had told her that you feel you probably shouldn't be together any longer...would it make things worse or be a good thing to get a letter from her?

You have had overnight by yourself, no calls from her, no crying, no drama...would a simple e-mail from her be a bad thing? Would it be better to leave him completely alone and not let him in on how I am feeling about the situation, make him wonder?

Or do you think expressing how I feel in an e-mail and being truthful is a good thing and could help?

(I know this is confusing, but if you get where I'm coming from, please give me your advice...)

[HAnn521]

thank you all, and buddha, I have read some the book before...and I live in the US, so no need to get it to me...but I appreciate everyone's advice, still...

I have not sent the letter, or called...I do have to get something of mine from him at some point, so I know we will have to see each other soon.

I will wait and see what happens before I think about sending this in-depth e-mail to him...

[ronniemonda9]

Tough one. In a similar situation myself. Hope it works out for you Hal.