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My ex has now text me saying that im apparently making her life hell! not a clue how i am but hey, whatever she wants to believe, she then finally told me who she'd given my number too and that she never wants to talk to me again (which is good, the feelings mutual). i played a little reverse tactic, told her that if the guy texts me again, I will give her number out (i won't give it out but she doesn't know that) :-) haven't heard from the guy since. oh, and he was due to be here to "kill me" half an hour ago!