whats your thoughts on this

[gaspanic]

Well I have big question

The girl Im dating currently is proclaiming to be very much into me and bought me a ring etc etc etc we done all the normal things couples do etc etc, just a question I have
is tonight she said she was going to a makeover night with the girls and I was like "have a goodtime love" when i called her which she asked me to around 9:30pm there was loud music guys talking and she said she was getting quite wasted
i was like ok cool on getting wasted just get home safely, but why are there blokes around? and then she proceeded to tell me she never knew they'd be there and well it seems like a party... then she asked if she could stay the night and that the guys would be in their own room...

my question is we've been together 3 months, which isnt long, shes very serious about me or claims to be, but we do live a good 200miles apart...so i said no to spending the night do you people think shes not serious? and im being messed around...

just a general thing
ta
also is it possible you never find love or a relationship and live alone forever? do these people exist!! all i seem to meet is women who act faithful then swan off for no reason maybe they get too comfortable maybe its just people these days
help ab's

[DavideMexia]

and level of confidence

[gaspanic]

i just phoned her she sounded pissed and said "oh mikes here singing"

*hits delete entry on phone and red button*
NO THANK YOU.
CHEERS FOR ALL YOUR HELPS ANOTHER TART KICKED TO THE KERB.

[Dris]

This song has seem me through many a long night....you'll be fine gaspanic

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzwPz83UbuU

[gaspanic]

Dris I throughly enjoyed that thank you, but ill be fine you cant break whats already broken.

[gaspanic]

this is better darlin

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YC8FET-EGVM

[Andyvon]

Gaspanic,

As Dris says you will be fine. Most of us can see that you are only going through what we have in the past. However, it's not easy to see the trees when you are so deep in the wood. It's a rocky old ride but you'll come out the other side and be fine.

Take care.

[Dris]

Have to say ive never listened to them before but they are superb and I shall be looking to buying an album -sorry its on the back of you being hacked off -but every cloud.......x

[gaspanic]

shes not 19 forever its not big or clever

[NazNomad]

:-))

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ANP0qy25jrw

[Brinjal]

I kinda disagree that it isnt an age thing. Just watching my own kids things are different these days and they dont want to be serious at too young an age. 19 is very young and she should not bet getting too serious. At 27 you are thinking about a more serious relationship so there lies the main issue. Even at 27 you should still be out having fun. Men should only settle in their 30s and girls mid to late 20s. But having said all that honesty is the main thing and it is important to know where you stand so you can make decisions about your life. Go out have fun and meet someone the same wave lenght as yourself

[starone]

It would be better if you lived near each other so that you could see her more often. 200 miles is a long way, and although it works sometimes long distance love affairs are more likely to break up. I knew my husband for 65 years - he lived two streets away when we met, although I had never seen him before. We were married for 63 years He died in 2009 and I miss him still. I am not saying you will find anyone like this but one day you will meet someone who will be faithful and loving.You will get difficulties during your life whoever you meet and whatever you do, you just have to keep trying.

[TTG]

200 miles is much too far. "Out of sight...out of mind" as the saying goes.

[China Doll]

She asked your permission to stay the night?! And so what ifshe went to a party alone. I would prefer it if my boyfriend could go to a party we were invited to by friends but if he couldn't and I wanted to go then I would. And I might even stop over if I fancied it and if I felt it was late enoug so that it was actually safer to stay at my friends than try to get honme alone. I would never ask my boyfriends permission to stay at a friends house over night (though would let him know where I was) and wouldn't expect him to do the same, you're adults and can make your own judfement calls.I think you've made too big a deal over this and that neither of you should be in this relationship, neither of you sound mature enough.

[NOX]

Sorry to hear it ended as it did Gaspanic, but china has a valid point about needing permisison I'm afraid, it's not something that most adults would ever consider needing form their partner.
With regard to you andyvon, you make a lot of ill based assumptions about people and in this instance you're 100% wrong on all counts, not that you'll care, it's obviously fine by you to wade into someone on a website when you have no idea about them personally- I don't recall talking to you directly or insulting you, so why would you feel the need to do so to me? Was it just because I disagreed with you, or are you habitually rude?

[4getmenot]

I go out without my man and to parties. I say if you want to be with someone then its for life so whats a few nights apart. I certainly wouldnt stay in a house with the blokes though unless I couldnt get home, but then my man always picks me up if I cant.