Reeves Is Now After Your Pension Funds
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Yes, sounds like she has trust problems but that shouldn't be compensated by her control over you. Take time to see all your mates with and without her, but also spend time with her.
As regards the getting back to her ex, if anyone used this threat on me they would be straight out the door, whether said in jest or not. No room in a relationship for a 3rd party in my eyes.
yup she sounds like a bunny boiler! at the moment it is just a slightly annoying control issue, but given time she'll get worse until you have lost your entire life to her... knock it on the head now, she is obviously a power freak and that is nearly always more important to the person than their partner is (if you see what i mean) e.g. she will be happy controlling anyone else as she is in love with that and not the person.
good luck and enjoy going out with you mates again
Always amazes me when I hear the phrase "I'm not allowed...." with regards to adult relationships. You are an adult not a child. She has no right to dictate to you who you can go out with, I agree with all of the above this will probably only get worse if its left. If you love her then stay with her but only if she totally rethinks her attitude.
Best of luck
can only agree with the above. The more you let her get away with this ridiculous, controlling behaviour, the more it will feed her insecurities, rather than help her overcome them. She needs to realise the trust issues are her problem, not yours and you should not be made to feel guilty for wanting to have normal friendships with your mates. You need to sit her down and calmly tell her that this is no longer acceptable and that you will be resuming your social life. If she needs reassurance of your feelings for her, or has moments of jealousy, she should tell you, and you can give her hugs and reassurance, but you should still continue to see your friends and join in with their normal social activities. Your gf may well have had issues with unfaithful boyfriends/absent father etc in the past which has contributed towards her severe jealousy and controlling behaviour, but that is for her to address, with your help of course, as at present you are becoming a victim of her unreasonable behaviour.
However, I do agree with the above re your use of "can't" and "not allowed to". That's YOUR choice, as you are an adult, yet you're allowing yourself to be dictated to and treated as tho you were a child. This is not a partnership in any way at the moment, and you seriously need to get some equality here.