Stuck in a rut

[Natella1]

My partner and i have been together a while now, he is 18 years older then me and already has a ten year old daughter.
when we first got together i made it clear that i wanted kids and that was that and he told me he did too.
Now he has decided he is really unsure about having more kids when he knows i am desperate for one as i lost one with a previous partner.
Its got to the stage that i love him but having kids is too important to me to give up for a guy.
Anyone know what i should do???

[MickeyTheBrick]

Only you can decide what to do. If you imagine you are sitting in a chair when you are 70 years old, which would you regret more; not having a child or giving up your fella?

[boxtops]

It's a difficult one - your chap being that much older, he may not now relish the thought of all the disruption a new baby can bring.

[muchlovex]

I think both you and your partner both need to have a heart-to-heart with each other.

You only know yourself what you should do.

Muchlovex