what would you do?

[divegirl]

Hi, my daughter is currently on holiday in Mexico, so I know what I am about to say is in in way true! At near on 12 last night I received a call on my mobile from a 'lad' saying rather joyously that he had F$$$$$ my 13 year old daughter last night. I was a little gobsmacked to say the least, but asked him how the weather was out there!
He phoned twice in total, once claiming to be his mum and had the stupidity to leave a caller id, I also have a good idea of who he is as he bullied my daughter a few years back and has always been a spectre in her life. I have contacted and am awaiting replies from a couple of my daughters friends to see if they can confirm who the number belongs to.
So....what would you do? Leave well alone or confront, if I can prove it is him [or whoever it is] parents.

Lisa x

[Beads]

sugar = s hi t

[Hopkirk]

I think I would go and have a conversation with this lad's parents.

[divegirl]

Just to update....the police have already been and were fantastic! They said I had two options, one to press charges and two to scare the little darling, I went for option two and they will be paying a visit to his school on Tuesday!

Lisa x

[Hopkirk]

Well done!

[divegirl]

I even said to the police, it was the language that he used that got to me, that's my baby girl he was talking about!!! If he had said I sh***ed you daughter I may have just been angry and put the phone down, but using the f word was just disgusting!
The unfortunate side of it will probably be that it will all be water off of ducks back to him and it will be my daughter that suffers but I'll cross that bridge when and if we come to it!

Lisa x

[murraymints]

Maybe a public humiliation at school will do the job !! I would expect them to inform his parents also.....hope that's the end of it !! I would not dwell on the matter when daughter gets home though, she may be unduly scared/bothered by it...