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I'm starting to feel like Mollykins giving a 'yeah, but' response to everything you suggest, lol, but we don't actually have a current address for her, although I'm sure we could find it. I've never been to the place she got last year but my husband ( it's his sister ) has a couple of times - he never thought to write down her address though, and now she's dropped off the radar. Due to a family falling out we're not in touch with anybody else that could give us her details.
Don'tcha just love families!