Den....you are right.....I cannot compete with redman.
Did I tell you about the time that I slipped a Salvation Army woman one when he was selling War Cries at the back of the Grave Maurice pub in Whitechapel?
sometimes you just have to make the first move... not as up front as a friend who on one occasion... went up to a really gorgeous bloke with the simple but effective line
wanna (large bird of the cormorant family)
Being a bloke I would be flattered if a woman i didn't fancy asked me out and overjoyed if a woman who I did fancy asked me out. You've nothing to lose as long as you keep it light and everything to gain;-)