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No, long and complicated story -
Her uncle died the day before the will was to be signed.
My wife and her two brothers are therefore the sole beneficiaries
They have agreed that they will carry out her uncle's wishes even though they don't need to
Her brother (Executor) will be giving her £3000 for the grandkids out of the estate.
She needs to put this into some sort of account for them not to access until they are 21 and preferably without involving her daughter