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Jenarry | 22:07 Thu 14th Jul 2011 | ChatterBank
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My boyfriend during the past few months has spent a lot of time on my garden and it has been looking lovely. but just this week he has done a couple of things that I really dislike and suddenly the garden doesn't have the same easy on the eye natural look about it and it really bothers me especially as the garden had been looking so nice. I would even go as far to say I hate what he has done. :O(
Now I'm not one for keeping my feelings to myself but I'm really aware that if I say anything it will seem ungrateful and he's not going to appreciate it. He spent hours doing these jobs this week. Although I've paid for the materials and would happily pay again to redo it but I don't know how to broach it.
I'm thinking i may have to live with it and maybe suggest a change next year.
Any suggestions?...
ps i know this is really trivial in the scheme of things but it is really bothering me.
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the grey fence is just behind a waist height brick wall so it's hard to plant anything along this stretch of fencing. rw we discovered on the net that you can jet wash your fencing of any paints or treatments and can get it back the the natural colour . this is something we have spent ages doing . i had bright blue fencing and green fencing and some untreated which we have now painted it all dark brown.it was looking tons better ,not lots of different colours. until last wk and the grey and green. :O( thanks everyone for your advice. i think i'm going to bite my tongue and prob change it myself next spring.

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