So confused

[Cockney_si]

My girly wants timeout after three months.

She's been promising me everything has been fine up to now and then she says she just wants to be friends and it's runs its course and she can't see a future in us anymore.

She has a lot on her plate at the moment and seems unstable I feel that a relationship on top of all that is the thing that's tipping her over the edge.

I'm just so confused and want to be there for her as a friend when she needs me.

She's not one to express emotions that easily and seh said she still loves me and cares for me and when I hugged her she was shaking uncontrollably.

Anyone been in this situation before?

[Dakota2]

Hi Si,

As you say, she has a lot on her plate at the moment and she'll be feeling like everything is caving in. I remember your thread the other weekend when you two had had a falling out, Is the relationship particularly turbulent?

I honestly think the best thing you can do right now is to give her the space from the relationship and let her / help her work out all the other issues she has right now. Try and be there for her without putting pressure on her to re-start the relationship.

Things will work out in their own time. Please keep us up to date Si, I was thinking about you the other weekend after that last thread. x

[Cockney_si]

I did sort everything out the last time and I shall take my time and be there for her, it's not like I'm gonna run off with anyone else as I'm not like that.

Shall keep you informed, thanks.

[Dakota2]

Si, it didn't cross my mind that you would sweetheart :)

I know how you feel about this girl to have been so upset about the previous argument. She just needs time to sort out the other things before she feels able to give 100% into a relationship with you.

Thanks for keeping me up to date x