I dream that my boyfriend is horrible!!

[Annie]

Can any one help?? I have reoccuring dreams that my boyfriend is horrible to me, they are so vivid that when I wake I am angry with him. The situations are all different but have the same theme of that he has done somthing to upset me.

[Gef]

I'm no expert but my advice is please don't worry about this. I have been happily married for 28 years but occasionally have dreams in which I have shouted at/fallen out with my wife. The feelings are still quite strong when I first wake up but they soon disappear and are soon forgotten. They are probably a result of some argument we have had in real life but not a problem. I can't link them to anything specific and are probably nothing to do with our relationship but just the general state of my mind.

[Lennon]

This has happened to me in the past as well. Thing is, although no one will believe me when I say this (no one ever does) but me and my boyfriend don't argue. We live together and have been together for 2 and a half years so we'e not still in the honeymoon stage :) But I've had dreams like those, where he's done horrible things (but most of the time they're little things but seem really bad in the dream) and I've woken up in the middle of the night and shoved him in his sleep as I was so annoyed. :) Mad huh? I wouldn't worry about it - your subconsious mind is a weird thing and things surface that you didn't even know you could think of - just be glad your boyfriend isn't being horrible when you're awake. :)

[Cathy]

Maybe if things are going well with your boyfriend it's your subconcious mind thinking about how awful things could have been. Or maybe your worried that it's too good to be true? Whatever the reason, I would take it as an opportunity to appreciate how good things are, compared to these dreams.

[Annie]

Thank you all for your responses all of which have the common theme of not to worry about the dreams.