Did you ask your man out?!

[Sade]

Okay, I am so crap at this but wondered how you lot got it together! Are there any ladies amongst you who asked out your man, or did something to 'steer' him into asking you out? I am so hopeless when it comes to flirting, being slightly pushy, doing anything in fact, to get the chap I like to notice me in a way that could be construed as more than friends. Men- tell me, what does a girl have to do to get you to realise that she likes you? I'm not brave enough to just ask him out I'm afraid!! Mostly because we are friends, and I think if he said no, it would makes things very awkward for the future. Help! :)

[tenrec]

I'll do my best!

[karenmac60]

I worked with mr mac for years, he hinted he liked me on a couple of nights out when I was splitting with my ex but then nothing for years. I ended up starting some email conversations with him that got a bit rude, admitting I liked him, then pursuing him for weeks. It worked :)