I personally would not have signed the form either, acknowledging, on my child's behalf, that he had made a 'racist' statement, as the words he used, in the context they were used were not racist. Whilst I do have some sympathy with the school needing to follow guidelines, one cannot simply have a blanket policy which allows over senstive people to become 'offended' whenever the fancy takes them with no good cause and for that offence to cause an innocent child to be branded a racist. The schools need some flexibility in dealing with scenarios where some parent's may be over sensitive without having to fear that their own judgement might be brought into question. that is, the head should have had the good sense to be able to say to the offended lady 'This is clearly NOT a racist incident, if you disagree you are of course at liberty to appeal my decision with the LEA'. There should be no automatic referral of every little incident when there is clearly no case to answer.