Yes tinkerbell23 it is very sad and I do feel for these people, my OH is a bit over weight and I felt guilty that it was my fault,because I do all the cooking but myself and son are not over weight.It's the extras like biscuits,crisps.pop,chocolate etc, that he sneaks into his diet that makes all the difference.This is a choice that he makes because he can.These oversized people cannot,they do rely on others and is it fair that they keep feeding them the wrong stuff. No it is not fair.This is strong to say but it is cruel,not being kind.