Why do fathers feel threatened by sons?

micmak | 23:53 Wed 14th Mar 2012 | ChatterBank

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When I was 16 ish I could not disagree with my father, unless I wanted a battering. Anyone else had this experience.

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guythegorilla

@NOX....Wow sure yr not an Angel!!! Not only was i terrified of my father i was also sexually abused at my boarding school by my so called father figure!!

micmak

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Nox and Mamya. I was having a go at no one. Please don't take what I said out of context. My father treated me very badly IMO. What I was trying to get across was I treated my sons with love, yet I still lost both of them.

Mamyalynne

Mic I do hope you come back and realise I meant nothing lightly, continue to share with us and we will try to understand, however hard that may be ((HUG))♥

Mamyalynne

There you are - Mic life is so cruel, you did everything right, why you had to be put through this dreadful loss, we will never know or understand.

NOX

As said before I am truly appalled at your loss, and I honestly have great admiration for your ability to even funciton, as that is one scenario where I really think I could not. It's everyone's worst nightmare, and I am really so sorry it happened to you.

guythegorilla

Until you become a Father..............and only then will you begin to understand yr own father!

micmak

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Life is cruel mamya as you know too.. I have good days when I think of happy times and bad days. I'm sure you know what I'm speaking of.♥♥♥♥

joko

my dad is like that...has to rule, his word is final, and any form of disagreement is greeted with outrage...absolutely believes he is the king the castle and is kids are beneath him...he seemed to believe the phrase 'im your father' was enough to cancel out all argument

he is still like that now.

he does also have a kind and generous side

i am female.

Mamyalynne

I do Mic and although I have not been through what you have, you know I at least try to understand and care, for that is the best I can do . xxx

micmak

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NOX, I'm very slow at typing. Thankyou for your answer. A large baccardi helps me sleep. Tomorrow, Is another day. Until it dawns.

NOX

No problem Micmak, sleep well my friend.

Mamyalynne

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trt

I could never disagree with my father, I was scared stiff of him, especially when he came home from the pub.

Terrible memory's, will never forget the hidings I got!