Feel ive 'got old'.......

[Im a BusyBee]

I was poorly 16 months ago, had 10 weeks off work sick, but i feel ive never been the same since. I had my 49th birthday during that time and so much about me and my outlook changed its unbelievable, for instance........the radio station i listened to was trendy now i listen to our local BBC, i only wash my hair twice a wk and can relate to my grandmother saying how she couldnt do anything with her hair the day it washed, rather than washing it everyday. Couldnt eat welldone toast now i only eat it blackened. I now worry for england totally and utterly unnecessary - i could go on and on it really is everything about me. Why is this? im finding somethings about it very frustrating.

[woofgang]

neti if this was my thread, i would give you best answer :-)

[Im a BusyBee]

yes neti, you brought a tear to my eyes! i think thats what i need to do! Maybe easier said than done but im gonna give my it my best shot. Thank you x x

[Im a BusyBee]

i really think im worrying too much about my family (who are all old enough to look after themselves) and apart from half an hour at slimming a week, i have no time for me!

[netibiza]

Exactly, busybee, all my time was taken up worrying (mostly unnecesarilly) about my family, making sure I was always there, cooking and keeping the house tidy, I was boring to them and boring to me. Kick up your heels make the effort and you'll feel much better, and even when you feel bad, don't let it get the better of you, plough on with the smiles and skipping and you will make it good luck