Sometimes, walking away from one's fate leads directly to fate's doorstep.

[Cockney_si]

Not seen my ex for 2 months, but once today and once last week I have seen my ex out and about, last week I was deliberately going to places to avoid seeing her and ironically, still saw her.
She definitely saw me today, although not too sure about last week.

I'm all over the place emotionally and it physically makes my stomach hurt when I've seen her....The title of this post says it all really.

Anyone else tried to avoid certain things but ended up with coming face to face with them instead?

[tinkerbell23]

Awck.... :0(

I hate that feeling....stomach lurch.....thankfully i never see my ex about!!

Hope ur ok xx

[Smowball]

Its always the way, when you are trying to avoid something or someone then they always seem to appear. Sorry you are still hurting so much x

[Cockney_si]

I'm OK yeah, been keeping busy and all that, but everything reminds me of her too when I'm trying to get over it all. I innocently clicked on a website the other day and the picture came up with words that said "When someone's on your mind, maybe they're meant to be there."

I'm like a frikkin' love sick puppy at the moment, I hate feeling like this. Thanks for caring.

[grasscarp]

This is probably no help at all right now, but my first ever boyfriend dumped me. Was heartbroken at the time. Made the mistake to see him again last year and lovely teenager had turned into a boring puffy faced old man. So sometimes things do work out for the best, though it doesnt feel like it at the time.

[owdhamer]

Sods law mate.

[Cockney_si]

I've been there before and each time there seems like no reason, but I have a daughter as a result of people dumping me in the past, so that kinda worked out. No doubt I will look back on this point in my life two years from now and it will all make sense.

It's just at the moment, the whole universe will not let me let it go, feel like I'm caught in the film Seredipity mixed with the Adjustment Bureau, lol.

[tinkerbell23]

You will get there....when my ex and i finished everyone including him thought i would practically die off...and i just didnt.....uurgh and even for a million quid i couldnt go near him again.

But its worse when you still have feelings......but even when i look back on someone that i wish hadnt ended it with me....im glad now. You know where i am if you need a chat....you come across as totally lovely on here and a good dad....so you have heaps going for you ;0>

And just think of all the fun you have ahead of you when you feel upto dating again ;0) xxx

[Cockney_si]

I'm lovely, but sometimes a pushover and been told I'm "too nice", but being nasty doesn't keep the world going ;)