Do friends just randomly walk out your life??

[spotsandstripes]

Is this a natural part of growing up???? I have friends, had friends, who just all of a sudden, delete me out of their lives. We'll talk one day, while later I realise they have deleted me from their facebook. This has happened to me, various times now. Is it me? Its happened so many times, with different people, im questioning myself as not only a friend but a person. A girl I was friends with since I was a little girl walked away, uni friends, a friend from school. I ask, what makes someone a likeable person? Because maybe, I'm not a nice person. Maybe its not them, its not a part of growing up, but its me. Maybe im a rubbish person. I dont know. all i do know is this keeps happening and there comes a point where you got to sit back and question why. How can I keep friends. To my knowledge I havent done a thing to hurt them, back stab them or go with their men so Im confused and need to know, what makes you a likeable person?

[guythegorilla]

There is a saying "there nowt as queer as folk"Northern expression.Anyway ultimatley what makes anyone a likeable person is someone who stays truthful to themselves.In other words never pretend you are something that yr not! Just be you and chill............good luck

[guythegorilla]

Wow looks like you have plenty of nice new friends from reading some of the Replies.
@Purple_Popple just read yr comments 2 grt minds and all that............

[tamborine]

Some have issues they dont want to share on forums. Dont take it personally, they will be back when they feel more social.

[mrsweasley]

Blimey, could be me who wrote this-almost word for word (not me-Ed can check ip adress if my cousin reads this and wonders) i have one very good friend who is real friend, she is always there for me at the end of the phone, and would come round if more serious that need a chat. Got 2 cousins (out of 5) who have called me pathetic and selfish. lazy etc. Just get on with your own life. Happy today as been for a walk and sit down in park, surprising how it brightens you up. good luck