I once went to a spiritualist church with two neighbours. I only went out of curiosity because my dear Grandad had believed in spiritualism and I thought how lovely it would be if he contacted me. He didn't, but one medium had a message for one of my group, supposedly from her deceasded husband which was accurate right down to the sort of flowers he used to buy her, but then he said he can see a glass of whisky, but my neighbour said he didn't drink and it ended there. Later as we were leaving the medium ran after us and told her that it wasn't her husband holding the glass of whisky, it was her husband's brother, and yes he was dead and yes he did drink whisky! We talked about it all the way home.