My ex...

[babylilo]

Ok so I was kinda seeing this guy for about 7 months but he broke it off saying I was too clingy, not true. I was so confused. Anyways I stayed in a flat with his friend, a girl, but we fell out big style and I ended up moving back to my mums. He started going out with this other girl and used to rub it in my face when we were working together. Me and this guy fell out because I just moved out of this flat. He made my life hell at work for the past five months. He calls me everything. Argues with me. He just doesn't seem to want to leave me alone and to move on with my life. We hadn't spoken in 5 months but recently at work he's been told he has to be nice to me cause he behaviour was becoming a joke. He text me the other morning at half 3 in the morning asking if this was still my number. I said yes why. He replied saying just checking. Why you up at half 3?. I didn't text back. I was angry that after everything he can just text me and make conversation. Who does he think he is?

Im just wondering what this means that he is text me after so long? He was texting with kisses and wasn't getting any in return. Im so confused. Also don't know which category to put this under.

[Davethedog]

Because if you text back anything, he can show it to your boss or HR and say you are harrassing him.

Be very suspicious, don't put any thing in writing, don't ring him, don't leave voice mails and never be anything less than civil.

I can see you still have feelings but just step back.

[snags]

Booty call.

[rowanwitch]

Ignore him but keep everything he sends you in case you need evidence he is the one harassing you

[baza]

agree with answers so far, he sounds like a child of parents unwed.

[DTCwordfan]

And keep a diary of events in a notebook and, this may sound strange, write it in pencil......it shows up if you have made any changes! Therefore, it represents a truer record of what you have written. The traders do this.....

[parkie]

Might it be he still has a 'thing' for you?

[murraymints]

Get a new sim for your phone..be civil at work but you DON'T have to speak with him otherwise..so don't...

[maggiebee]

Well, if you answered it was obviously still your number! Sounds as if he's the clingy one and he needs to move on. As MM suggested, get a new sim card, be civil at work but otherwise ignore him.

[jabuchanjx]

You posted for help and understanding, everyone here has given good advice, please heed to it. And from what I read, the way he has been acting at work, has shown others that he is the one causing trouble by trying to agitate you. Do Not return text messages as already told. Do Not call him, no matter what. Save all messages whether its text or voice, record in a journal all things that is said and happens as already told. He sounds like the type that wants you but does not want you, in other words, narcissistic personality, all for self.