when you send pics from Share ie email on the iphotos area, where can you see what you have sent? it uses an email address that isnt the same as the one with the postage stamp icon, or if it is, the pics arent in the sent folder, hope you understand what im asking, im new to all this.
tbh, iPhoto sucks when it comes to sending emails. Much better to 'export' the photo to the Desktop and then just attach it using your chosen mail client.