lost sex life

[informashun]

my wife and i are in our 70s but she has lost all interest in sex while i am young at heart and look younger than my age.
i still feel very horny at times and miss sex very much.
apart from masterbating what options have i left at my age and not rock the boat ?

[woofgang]

Why are you talking to us and not her?

[NoMercy]

Err... Blow up doll?

[Mojo-Jo-Jo]

Of course there are options but the first thing you could do is to discuss it with your wife.
Who knows, she might not mind the odd massage or something, but then again she might and would you really want to hurt her like that if she found out?

[boxtops]

Talk to her - it might be that (for instance) it's painful for her since menopause. She might just not be interested, but it might be that you could make it interesting again. Tell her how much you miss it.

[TTG]

Is there something lacking outside the bedroom perhaps? Talking to her will be the only way you will find out.

Hope it works out for you both.

[vodkancoke]

But Mazie, Jesse Metcalf wasn't in it first time round! ;) x

[vodkancoke]

Sorry wrong thread! *blush*

[mazie]

pmsl...you are correct he wasn't and I might have a look just for Him xx

[DTCwordfan]

one word - talk

perhaps off-site, for a weekend in an inn, neutral place where both of you can relax as things may be emotional......

[rsvp]

If you don't want to rock the boat - talk to your wife - obviously don't know how long you've been married - but for heavens sake man - is this a joke question?

[cubic999]

ever try watching something like countdown or gardeners world if i was in my 70's that would get me going/coming

[tinkerbell23]

Hiya informashun....

Sorry things are not how you would like just now...

It can take guts to pluck up and ask such a question on here AND to your wife (people should remember that)

Have a chat with her... Mabye shes a bit stressed or feeling a bit low? Mabye theres something medical?- side effect from any medication, or problems "down below"......have a wee chat with her. Xxxx good luck

[gness]

While I feel for you I find your question a little selfish. //What options have WE left// would have been better.

[grffindoor2011]

First thing would be to ask her why she has lost interest in sex.

As for options. Why not ask her what she would feel comfortable with you doing?

I'm all for being open and honest, I won't beat around the bush either on here or in real life. Say it like it is.

[happyone2]

What are you expecting people to say to .................. " and not rock the boat" presumably you are meaning you dont want to have an affair and upset her.........??? you dont want to pay for sex and her find out and rock the boat ????

What a bloody stupid question............ what options have i left at my age and not rock the boat ??? i ask you how absolutely pathetic ...................