kissing another person...

[satyr555]

My sister has been with her boyfriend for 2 years, they apparentley are in love, shes 29 and he's 36

I get on with him like a house on fire, its like having a brother, a long story short my sister this past year has got into acting as a sideline career aswell as being a HR assistant.

Theres a role coming up where she has to kiss a guy on the mouth and her boyfriend isnt happy infact he confided in me today saying it would really hurt him and he doesnt know if he can take it, he is very intelligent and knows its acting but the act of another mans lips on his girlfriend is upseting him...

what should I tell him...?

[humbersloop]

some quite creative swearing though ayg

[mightyWBA]

Is the man she has to kiss in a relationship?
If he is then this could help your Sister's boyfriend accept it's just a job for the chap who has to kiss her and it won't mean anything.

[maggiebee]

For funk sake, it's a job. There would never be any films/TV shows made if all actors/actresses (or their partners) felt like this.

[maggiebee]

Used to have a gonk with Mick Jagger lips.......wonder what charity shop that ended up in?

[askyourgran]

There used to be a singer in the local pub, lovely singer but he just looked like one of those animal things that people used to stick on their car windows. He had lips like a sink plunger.

[wiltsman]

Just ignore any flippant remarks and take on board those posts giving advice you're looking for.

You were advised earlier that perhaps you should have posted this query in Relationships. Unfortunately you wont find it listed in the Topics listing, but click on Body and Soul and there it is!

Welcome to AnswerBank.

[pizza]

Omg it's acting ! and your sister has already told the b'f she's doing it so she's not taking his feelings into consideration! really he has no choice to accept it or move on, if he feels so insecure about this and tries to stop her career she will only resent him.
Partners in love support each other and let's face it how many are lucky to have the chance of an acting career.
Fully understand your sisters b'f being upset but he needs to support her or lose her.