Help Regarding My Life And Faith

[RedJ123]

Hello everyone. I hope you are all well. I didnt really know where else to go so I just came on here. I am a 26 year old muslim guy living in Birmingham with my parents and siblings. They are very abusive towards me and often beat and spit on me. I have tried to kill myself twice in the past and have failed. I often cut my arms just to get my mind off the pain. I have no friends and no one who cares about me. My family dont let me pray in the house as they call me a jinn(demon) and say that I iam only showing off. Becasue of them and other things in my life I have stopped praying. People I work with a really horrible to me and say that im stupid and thick often. They always go to xmas parties and work night outs t never invite me. I am feeling really suicidal and upset. I have often asked my parents to find me a wife but they never do and say im too thick to be married. I often get beatings off my parents. I dont know what to do. My email is [email protected] if somebody could email me or help me i will be very grateful. Thanks and God bless you all.

[wildwood]

I believe this is a windup, but just in case it is true, phone you nearest community care centre without delay, and ask them for advice as the symptoms you describe is common for distraught young people bend on selfharm.

[naomi24]

If this is a serious post, perhaps the Samaritans could help you - and you might consider leaving home and changing jobs. From the way you write, you're clearly not 'thick'. You don't sound stupid to me.

[tenrec]

You are a grown up. Take charge of your life. Move out and find a different job where you are appreciated.

[boxtops]

I feel this could be genuine - red, go to the mosque to pray, have you spoken to the welfare officer at the mosque too. I am not surprised your workmates don't ask you out - if they think you are devout, then they probably think you can't go to pubs etc (or perhaps think you don't celebrate Christmas). Your family sound charming. You work - get yourself a little flat or a bedsit- move out.

[VHG]

A search on the internet for this email address show this has been posted on many forums over the last few months.

DONT send them an email as then they will have YOUR email address and it is likely to be added to spam distribution lists and you will start to get loads of spam.

[keyplus90]

I personally believe it is windup.

[naomi24]

Well spotted VHG.

[maggiebee]

RedJ123 - phone Samaritans ASAP 08457 90 90 90

[Baldric]

Red, while your there, did you ever get enough buckets to build your waterfall?

[AlwaysConfused]

VHG, good one.

[modeller]

You say you are 26 and writing like an attention seeking 10 year old.
You have had 12 answers and not responded to any of them.
We have had similar posts in AB and the pattern is the same the poster chooses emotive subjects to highlight and waits for the responses but never replies. Proove me wrong !