spencer and heidi are vile :-( saw them on the hills before,and has been said by vodka,heidi appeared to be a normal girl who had been on a prior show called laguna beach, living with her friend. that show morphed into "the hills" and for the first season she was normal,then she met spencer and all the controlling began. by their own admission,if you look online,her family and friends tried to get her away from him because they thought she was being controlled. they admit to faking divorce proceedings for fees and publicity. spencer was let go from the hillls for anger issues .heidi stopped communication with her mother and sister for 2 years,again,by her own admission, and then had an 11 procedure op in one day . in her early twenties,she is soo plastic looking and has assumed her role as his "reality" wife. personally,i think spencer doesnt have an empathetic bone in his body and is what you would call a "schadenfreude" (bad friend who enjoys your misery),to the nth degree.