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A Story About A Love Affair
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some time ago I met a guy at a night club, it was new years night 2 years ago. We spoke for a while, I wasnt really interested and swapped facebooks. Valentines night arrives and I get a message from this guy, we got chatting and he asked me out and that's when it started.
He told me he had a child and was split from the partner. So I was cool with this. He also lives in a different city from me, so we didnt see each other very often, so a casual thing. But i found him super sexy, and he approached me in the club, so he's attracted to me too.
Anyway, 1 1/2 years pass of this very casual friendship, slowly getting to know each other better etc etc. Then one day he arrives and advises me that the mother of his child wants to have something with him again, and he thinks that he can make it work. I didnt like it too much, and i'm not sure going back is ggood in relationships, but it's different when there is a child involeved, and depends a lot on the situation etc etc, none of my business anyway.
So they got back together, and admitidly I have not seen as much of him since they got back together, but we have been in constant contact over the phone, and I feel that from just meeting this one guy in a club, to getting to know him better, we've become quite close, and good friends even. He's super nice, and sexy and things I tell know one, he has figured out about me, without me even telling him! In the last couple of weeks our friendship has changed. I feel we bonded somewhere, and a bond was created. It's such a shame.
Its bad timing. But then I have to ask myself, would he even be with me if he wasnt also with the mother of his child. But that's not the point anyway, the point is that tonight I said to him that I wanted to be his only girl, and he said, its impossible. So there is my answer,,, it's impossible.
We have a nice friendship, a real one where we know stuff about each other and I would like to say honest, but he's not the most honest of guys. lol... oh god, i swear I know this guy is a rat, but there is still something i like about him, its his manner, and his attitude. He says he needs to be with the mother of his child to see his child, he says its the only way. He also says they dont have horny sex together...
I dont know what to do. I should just sack him, I would do it easier if I didnt think we had a ggood friendship. It's been 2 years. But he said it was impossible, so doesnt leave much choice. Just wish I wasnt so god dam addicted to him. Im not doing much else right now, working, seeing friends. He also told me he doesnt like giving Oral the other day, he's a hot guy, that doesnt like giving oral... he said it wasnt his preference lol... This is bothered me too... What do you think girls? 2 years with this guy.
He told me he had a child and was split from the partner. So I was cool with this. He also lives in a different city from me, so we didnt see each other very often, so a casual thing. But i found him super sexy, and he approached me in the club, so he's attracted to me too.
Anyway, 1 1/2 years pass of this very casual friendship, slowly getting to know each other better etc etc. Then one day he arrives and advises me that the mother of his child wants to have something with him again, and he thinks that he can make it work. I didnt like it too much, and i'm not sure going back is ggood in relationships, but it's different when there is a child involeved, and depends a lot on the situation etc etc, none of my business anyway.
So they got back together, and admitidly I have not seen as much of him since they got back together, but we have been in constant contact over the phone, and I feel that from just meeting this one guy in a club, to getting to know him better, we've become quite close, and good friends even. He's super nice, and sexy and things I tell know one, he has figured out about me, without me even telling him! In the last couple of weeks our friendship has changed. I feel we bonded somewhere, and a bond was created. It's such a shame.
Its bad timing. But then I have to ask myself, would he even be with me if he wasnt also with the mother of his child. But that's not the point anyway, the point is that tonight I said to him that I wanted to be his only girl, and he said, its impossible. So there is my answer,,, it's impossible.
We have a nice friendship, a real one where we know stuff about each other and I would like to say honest, but he's not the most honest of guys. lol... oh god, i swear I know this guy is a rat, but there is still something i like about him, its his manner, and his attitude. He says he needs to be with the mother of his child to see his child, he says its the only way. He also says they dont have horny sex together...
I dont know what to do. I should just sack him, I would do it easier if I didnt think we had a ggood friendship. It's been 2 years. But he said it was impossible, so doesnt leave much choice. Just wish I wasnt so god dam addicted to him. Im not doing much else right now, working, seeing friends. He also told me he doesnt like giving Oral the other day, he's a hot guy, that doesnt like giving oral... he said it wasnt his preference lol... This is bothered me too... What do you think girls? 2 years with this guy.
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Just tell him, you're wasting your time being with a man who's living with his wife and child, horny sex or not. Get a life of your own.
I don't see why you are majoring on the oral sex bit, some men (and women) don't like doing it. That's not significant.
What's more important is that he's told you he's not free to be with you. Believe him. Join some clubs, go out with your mates. Tell him you're ending it, then don't answer his calls.
I don't see why you are majoring on the oral sex bit, some men (and women) don't like doing it. That's not significant.
What's more important is that he's told you he's not free to be with you. Believe him. Join some clubs, go out with your mates. Tell him you're ending it, then don't answer his calls.
Sounds great this "Good Friendship" hate to see what your bad ones are like.
Super nice !! yet you know he's a rat !! and dishonest.
He needs to be with the mother of his child ?? wants to be is what he wants and probably tells you they don't share a bed.
This guy gives plenty of oral it's called b***hi*
If this is a real post you need to get your act together and move on with your life and sack Mr Super Sexy Verbally Oral No Hoper.
Super nice !! yet you know he's a rat !! and dishonest.
He needs to be with the mother of his child ?? wants to be is what he wants and probably tells you they don't share a bed.
This guy gives plenty of oral it's called b***hi*
If this is a real post you need to get your act together and move on with your life and sack Mr Super Sexy Verbally Oral No Hoper.
You say two years with this guy, but not in real terms is it, different cities, not like you regularly dated is it? You know the answer. So what is it you're seeking here? Permission to have an affair? We can't give it to you. Same as we can't control your morals, scruples, or feelings. Don't be childish about buckets of water and bags of flour, you're not 14. Change your phone number and throw away any letters unopened.
Stop feeding this guy's ego with a spoon will you - he's told you it's impossible to have a proper one on one relationship with him yet he leaves you dangling till the next time. Sorry to sound brutal but I don't know what else it's going to take to get through to you.
Stop feeding this guy's ego with a spoon will you - he's told you it's impossible to have a proper one on one relationship with him yet he leaves you dangling till the next time. Sorry to sound brutal but I don't know what else it's going to take to get through to you.
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