First time I have entered a posting recently - why has Desktop being put top of the pops and I made one mistake of not entering my true feelings that I did put (genuinely) put all my stuff into a wheely bin for the Charity which I did do. It totally amazes me - I do think myself desktop is a charity case herself - she is not true to you and herself. I think she has kidded you on. That is why as I have said before you don't know the "true person".
I'm glad to see this thread has gone back on track, after digressing wildly in the middle from the OP :-(
Conne, you can't draw any comparison. I saw (and I think contributed to) the thread of yours about not appreciating your "cheap" gifts - it was a horrible thread even if you didn't mean it that way. Desktop is a completely different matter, and I honestly don't think anyone has the right to talk about another ABer in this derogatory way.