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All quiet, mail arrived and not ripped up today. We are putting this down to the fact his wife (MILaw) in the house. She is just as bad but when away from him is more normal. My wife has attempted to arrange lunch with her to discuss (not disclosed yet) however, she has said she is busy. We will give it one more try tomorrow, failure will result in me going to the police and pushing it all the way, I am conscious of the fall out however, he deserves it. Success is firing one across his bows making him aware of his actions and he can't sit there being as smug as he is and I have confirmed that he is a nasty, vindictive piece of work. Further up date tomorrow. Wish me luck.