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Thanks maisie, boxy and gness, my BIL, is quite ill undergoing treatment for his cancer in between all this, and he feels beaten down with it all, apart from that the 4-5 hour journey to Lancashire every time, it tires them out, and their son has to drive them there and back. The funeral is next Wednesday and they are staying with me until it is over.
Peter is it easy for someone to say what you have said. Maybe it wasn't your eldest son that died in tragic circumstances, away from his family and unable to communicate fully. Gness was quite right, by arranging and attending the funeral it is not going to take away the question of his care and whether the reason for his death was due to negligence on the hospitals' part. His hospital records and the Police investigation will not be brought to light now that the Coroner is unable to fulfil his duty, thanks to the incompetence of the funeral director. If he could have done so, and then declared it was 'Accidental Death' that would maybe have made them feel a little more at ease with the situation.