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many thanks for your advice, it sounds an almost impossible job. The tree is 20 years old, but was in a pot for the first seven, and didn't grow more than 4 feet, when we planted it in the ground it went mad, and shot up like a rocket. It is very healthy, we even get a few hazel nuts each year, and at the moment it is covered with catkins and new leaf, lovely.
Our reason for wanting it moved is that it is not possible to see it to its best advantage, because of the other trees, but it seems that we may have to put up with that.
We certainly do not want to lose it, like Tallulah, I hate to see trees disappearing. Another thing I don't like is seeing so many trees being covered with ivy, blurring their lovely graceful shapes, and I am sure eventually killing the tree.
Thanks once again Jean