Suggestion Of Something Different

[bountyboy]

I ask this hessitantly incase it get reported or deleted. So will be as discreet as possible. When my wife and I first got together. I asked if she liked oral stimulation. She said she does but doesn't like to do it as no man has done it right in the past. I have always wanted to do it to her but scared ill either get it wrong " for her" or get knocked back. Any suggestions how I can broach the subject again.

[ummmm]

How long have you been married?

[bountyboy]

@ummmm been married nearly 2 yrs.

[jno]

ask her how she'd like it done. Ask her every 30 seconds while doing it, if you like - at least the first time. Shared learning experiences in this field are often enjoyable for both parties.

[Old_Geezer]

Ask. If either partner isn't getting what they want, guess who needs to clarify what needs to change ?

As for broaching the subject, well one can only bring it up, perhaps ask if she has thought about giving it another go. But if she still isn't interested then she's not, and that should be respected. One ought not insist of 'giving pleasure' whether they like it or not.

[carrust]

I know the word for oral sex (cunning something or other) is a right mouthfull:-)

[ummmm]

Are you shy? Is she shy?

[boxtops]

Just ask her. Only she can tell you. When you first met she might just have said that (I wonder how she knows if she likes it, if nobody's done it right in the past). You're the one who's intimate with her, only you can ask her to teach you.

[ladybirder]

One ought not insist of 'giving pleasure' whether they like it or not.

Very funny OG:-)