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thanks mamy - he did complain I put 8 pillows on his bed - I knew he needed it to raise him up so he can breathe. Perhaps it was a way to say goodbye - my sister was also here so that was nice too - she has been good to him and his sons in her own way - hers and mine are different - no matter. He does know his time is up. I always think one is prepared for births, baptisms, communions, confirmation but so difficult to accept death which is inevitable for us all. God I am morbid now.