I'm Waiting For It... I Told You So...

[dizmouk2009]

After last nights outburst I'm waiting for the 'I told you so!'.

After realising that going round and busting my dads kneecaps wouldn't be a good idea...

[woofgang]

You ares still here, we are still here,you didn't kneecap your dad, you weren't arrested (were you? hope not) and life goes on. I'd say that's a win and well done for getting through a bad spot.

[lady-janine]

?pardon?

[tonyav]

You made the right decision, dizmouk.

[grasscarp]

I want to thank you Diz. I wrote a piece of advice to you, in the dark on my iPod. Somehow it ended up on the wrong thread. Here it was so bizarre and inappropriate that I got best answer. As I don't get many best answers I was pleased!
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/ChatterBank/Question1257405.html
New day. Keep up the sensible Dizmouk. :o)

[Connemmara]

Diz - we all know you are very angry at the mo towards your dad and want to tear him apart but it is really all to do with your wife leaving you and you want somebody to blame it on and you have chosen him. Stop worrying your mother and obviously (you like him) step-dad - (they're your real parents) not your dad. As you call him a waste of skin then don't waste yourself on him and getting into trouble. I know there are more underlying currents to your life but this one I would let go. There is one way of wanting to say what you want to your dad is by writing a letter. It worked for 3 young friends of mine who had been estranged from their father for 3 years but the letter bonded them together. Try something rational and always without alcohol. Good luck!

[Kissmequik]

Good for you for not going out to commit an act of violence but imo you have to clear the air and get some things off your chest otherwise like me you might spend the next ten years in limbo carrying around angry baggage which will you keep you enraged and threaten work relationships, friendships and any new relationships you get into as no one is going to understand your outbursts and why they're happening.

You sound very coherent today, maybe you can be adult enough to write down all the questions you have and ask to meet him in the park and get things off your chest?

Like i said, i did and it was the best thing i have ever done and allowed me to take control and get on with my life so was grateful to myself for taking that first step to reorganising my life.

Good luck, and guys with bald heads are sexy XxX

[pixie373]

Well done Dizmouk. If you did anything like that, it would only give your dad the sympathy and excuse he wants. He would be able to say to everybody- "see, this is what my son is like. It's not my fault." Don't give him that, as guilt is harder to live with than anger. Write him a letter if you really need to get things off your chest, but i think it would be better to look after yourself and think of your own future
Best wishes xx