Help!

[DrunkOnChocolate]

boys take the mick of me and I don't know how to change so they like me. any boys tell me what the like in a girl? also anyone know any good online dating sites.

[pixie373]

You don't have to change so they like you, you just need to meet more likeminded people. What work/ hobbies do you have?

[factor-fiction]

As you are still at school I defintely would not recommend online dating sites.

[Gizmonster]

I'm with factor-fiction and pixie373. It sounds like you're quite young and poss still at school (??) and I would not recommend online dating sites at your age. Don't change to make someone like you - if they don't like you for what you are, they're not worth it, so don't try and force the issue .......

[AlwaysConfused]

No no no to online dating. Work on your confidence first. If a boy does not like the way you are naturally, then they are not the one for you.

[woofgang]

Giz if you check this young lady's other threads, she is very young indeed, says she is adopted and her mother doesn't take a lot of notice of what she does. I guess at least if she hangs out on here. its safer than other internet places she could be.

[pastafreak]

How do they 'take the mick'? Young lads/boys often tease girls they like.
And listen to everyone else...definitely no to dating sites.

[DrunkOnChocolate]

all the boys in the school bully me. I am 1/8 Chinese. also people think I look like Dora the explorer. what could I do about it. the Chinese thing I don't care about and I will either dye my hair a different colour(thinking of a blue or blond streak but may not show) but they also bully me for having to of moved. I was originaly from England. I was adopted and they bully me about all the oving and different parents I have had

[pastafreak]

If that's what they bully you about.then they are not worth talking to...maybe they are jealous that you have seen more of the world than they have. Is there a teacher you can speak to,or does your school have a protocol in place for dealing with bullies?
Don't change yourself because of them...be proud of who and what you are. The right boy will like you for that.

[beso]

Girls who are obsessed about what boys think are never attractive. Stop being so obsessed and get on with YOUR life.

[TTG]

Pick out the ringleader (yes with a group of bullies there is always one) and say something about him as a "mick take". Even if it's not true, something like "At least I don't look like ??????? or a ???????" where ??????? can be a strange looking cartoon character or an animal. Then walk away laughing.