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jacque1986 | 23:28 Fri 06th Jun 2008 | ChatterBank
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today i was in brum when i had a phone call telling me, i old best mate was being buried today at 2.00. i raced back and was heading to her house i didnt have long to get there, even though i aint seen this girl for years it was still very upsetting. i got there obviously not dressed for the occassion, when i was there i saw this girl, my friend who was meant to be dead, she was on the drive esterical crying and everythink i thought who had dies then i was told it was this girl, then i noticed a little coffin two white horses and carriage. this girl my old friend was just in her own bubble and probs wouldnt of even regonised me so i came away. and it come to me it must be her baby. a little girl, which i found out tonight she was 1 month old. i dont know what to do now cause i been thinking all day. shell i knock on her door even though i aint seen her for years and didnt even know she had a child. could i knock and she just say what do i want.. i dont know what to do.
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A sympathy card with your telephone number is the way to go.

Then she can ring you if and when she needs to.
Id give it a few days , an dthen id go to visit.Be ready to be turned away if shes tooo upset to see you.I think you want to see her and i thi k that you should try and see her.
I may be wrong but if you dont it might prey on your mind for yeasr.Take her a sympathy card and maybe some flowers and just telll her that though youve not been in touch for a while you stillcare and are there if you can help.


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do you think a sympathy card will be to late tomorrow. or if im going to the house to post the card do i still knock on and see her in person or just post the card
Id at least say hello.
If its not bright then you will know and can leave.
It might help noone knows in these situations.
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yeah thanks, im getting teary just reading it. dont think thats a word though but who cares.
Best advic edo what you feel comfortable with.And go on your own instincts.
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well i regret not saying something earlier when i was there but i couldnt exactly say. erm excuse me whos died. i think i will drop by tomorrow with a card with my number in. she might not come to the door but i will give it her mom,
Don't under any circumstances call on her - grieving relations often don't want such hassle (my mum didn't when my dad died, and I had the unhappy job of turning them away)
Ooooops - didn't notice the date until too late - that's the trouble with related questions. Sorry everybody.

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