What Makes A Man Come Back For More Even If. . .

[Maggie549]

. . .I already told him I have an STD(herpes)? About him: he already has grown children and he is almost 60 years old, if that matters.

[andy-hughes]

I don't see that it does matter.

Perhaps this man feels a lot for you, even though you do not appear to feel the same way, from the tone of your OP.

[jackthehat]

You aren't legally obliged to have sex with him.......

[ummmm]

Maybe he likes you. Maybe he knows that herpes is only contagious when you have an outbreak.

[grasscarp]

I see you have just joined Answerbank. Not sure what you are asking here. A man is usually after what he is usually after... You have told him that you have herpes and he is not bothered. The fact that he has grown children and is 60 is irrelevant.

[Peter Pedant]

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erm if he is 60 then he has a 60% chance of having herpes antibodies himself - oral HSV but I think they cross-react....


frankly I am amzed its not more.
and also while I am at it - I am astounded that with all the sunny weather we are not deluged with 'Herpes epidemic outbreak shock' articles in the newspapers

[Kiki-frog]

Like Ummmm says, it sounds like he really likes you. The question is do you like him? If not, then you need to tell him that you don't feel you have a future together

[Ric.ror]

I thought 70-90% had herpes virus
He might have it himself