Someone asked me once "If you your husband and your child were in a river and they were drowning which would you save, your husband because you chose him?..... or your child because after all you & your husband are not related, where as your child is.... A TOUGHIE EH?
If I had a child, it would be the child. As a parent it's your job to protect your children no matter what, so to save your partner instead would to me be wrong.
That's a no brainer for me, it would be child every time. Have actually discussed this with husband before and we both said we'd sacrifice each other to save one/both of the kids.
No-one is going to say on this forum that they'd pick the husband are they. It's a horrible question bit like as kids when we used to ask which of our parents would die if we had to pick one.
Well, I can't swim out of my depth. Once in a pool with my ten year old I couldn't feel the pool bottom...panicked and grabbed my son round the neck. We both went under.....and although he was a good swimmer he still refers to the day Mum tried to drown him....;-) x