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Carrying A Torch
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Still desperately missing a partner after thirty years of divorce and remarriage to a lovely wife. Is this wrong, or can anyone relate to this? Your views would be appreciated.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I lost my heart to someone who erm later did a stint in prison
[ yes they had done the thing they were imprisoned for ]
I spend a lot of time thinking I could easily have ruined my life
and had peeked over a precipice and drawn back - and returned to a cup of tea and my knitting.
metaphorically sudduv
[ yes they had done the thing they were imprisoned for ]
I spend a lot of time thinking I could easily have ruined my life
and had peeked over a precipice and drawn back - and returned to a cup of tea and my knitting.
metaphorically sudduv
Feelings are feelings, they aren't wrong or right, they are just feelings....but to be fair to your lovely wife I think that you need to try to put these feelings to rest and focus on what you have now. Its easy to dwell on how wonderful the "might have been" would be and risk losing what you have now.....
woofgang is right. My wife buggered off 3 months ago and I'd do anything to get back with her but if I meet someone else and start a new life with that person I'd have to move on. Life is too bloody short. I wouldn't think twice about my wife if I was with someone who I loved and who loved me. As long as my wife is happy and has moved on with her life too then what matters?
Ok tell me if I'm rambling...
Ok tell me if I'm rambling...
i often think of the alternative life i could have had with my best friend's brother. every time i see him, i am reminded of this. i have no doubt that we could have been very happy, but we have never been singly/separated/divorced at the same time. this does hurt still, even after 25 years, but i am proud that i have invested in, and worked at my marriage. but it does not stop me wondering, and even fantasising what my life could have been like. i know he feels the same....and that perhaps makes things hurt just a little bit more than what they should. i repeat that i am happily married, but there is just always a little bit of me.....
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