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Beauty only skin deep?
People have said before now that I am gullable and I do feel like people still treat me as though I am a child because I HAVE NO ego and dont make demands
Mates of myine (same age as me) seem a lot more mature as they are able to express themselves and their opinions whereas I find it hard to and bottle everything up.
I just wish I knew a way whre I could develop my character / persona into something people would want to be around rather thatn a down on his luck low confidence guy
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Everyone matures at different paces, give your self more responsibilities it's what i did and i seemed to be much more grown up and besides you're only 23 you've got your whole life ahead of you, you're still going to have ups and downs and this is one of them it's how you handle it is what is going to prove how mature you've become.
Not having a big ego, or making demands is not necessarily bad.
I worked abroad for a few summers and it was the best thing to do to build confidence, and find out who you are. Not having your familiar environment around you automatically boosts your confidence, as does meeting new people. The new people you meet will not know that you are usually shy, so it's a good start to beginning not to be, and you will probably find you don't want to be either! Often when you are in a routine you may not feel able to change - going away for a while people may expect you to change to a degree.
Try travelling, or a summer abroad, it worked for me! And you could come away with some great new friends too!
And remember you are a good looking guy, who sounds like a nice guy too, they can be rare (ha ha) so be confident about that!!
Hope this helps x