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[quibbmedusa]

Its a long story but i have a ghost, well, probably 2 to be honest, am having a group of paranormal research ppl coming out on sat night, but one of the ghosts keeps talking to me which i find very unsettling.

She has told me to look for certain things, and when ive got over the shock, i go and look exactly where she tells me and the said article is there.

We have had enormous orb activity and have now seen the apparition looking through the window at us!

If anyone has my hotmail addy, can you give it to Mull please?

Any advise gratefully accepted!!!

[Loosehead]

Take me to your dealer!

[lindapinda]

Hi Med,I can't help you with the addy,I'm afraid, but, I did have some really weird things happen as well once,which really freaked me out. I can fully appreciate your situation!

[thepodgod]

First of all, if I were you I would lay off the paranormal research people and go and visit a shrink. Believe me, there is no such thing as ghosts. Fairies, goblins, elves and UFO's - now you're talking.

[dove]

oooooooohhhhh, glad im not in your shoes med, I have gone all goosey just reading that. x

[mullein3]

Hi, I have a lot of interest and experience in this area and from the little that you have said, I believe I could help. Firstly I would like to term the entity that you have referred to as a ghost as a spirit being. The fact that you said that it can communicate with you tells me that. There is a reason and a purpose why this spirit being has chosen to communicate with you and in my experience this does not happen randomly. From the little you have said I dont want you to be anxious or afraid about what's happened but it can be understood with a little investigation. I would first like to know how long ago when you first became aware of this Spirit being, and if you are aware of any feelings or sensations either prior to you seeing it, or when you definetly know that it's there.

[Loosehead]

So why do these ghosts never appear to unbelievers like me then? I'll spend a night in any haunted house, they'd never show up. That's because it's total cobblers, they don't exist, any ghosts or aliens you see are purely a result of substances you are currently ingesting.

[mullein3]

loosehead ...you are entitled to your opinion you dont believe so thats fine i respect that....but as for trying to say i am taking drugs well let me tell you i hate drugs and would never take them..anyone that does is stupid...i care too much about my health to take any thing toxic into my system..and you often find that people that live in the material world very rarely see anything ...as i am not materialistic and would be quite happy living in a cottage with no mod cons i can assure you i am well connected with spiritual and earthly issues..as for aliens i dont believe in them either as i have never seen one..if i had then i may well believe!! this site is supposed to be for everyone to have an opinion ...without being accused of taking drugs...i do have a mind of my own and i can assure you that i am open to others points of view and will consider what they say...but i wont be accused of something i havnt done...

[Loosehead]

Well I was being tongue in cheek with the "substances" remark.

People see these things because they want to, they are often hulucinations, not necesarily drug induced or they are misunderstandings.

Aliens do exist but due to the galactic distances involved we will never see them. UFO's are common but are not from another planet, they are, as the name suggests "Unidentified" that doesn't mean they are visitors from outer space it just means that when they are seen the viewer does not know what they are.

[quibbmedusa]

Loosehead..my hallucinations are obviously shared by over 10 different people who have been in and stayed in my house over the last 8 months!! People who knew nothing of the ghost before they came to the house, people who are as sceptical as you, have all seen and heard things that cannot be explained..i dont drink, and i certainly dont take drugs, and fortunately i am very open minded, unlike a lot of people on here it seems.

Mullein3...i have always sensed that someone is with me in the house, but it all started about 8 months ago when they started to dig at the back of the house, for a new cul de sac, since then, my neighbour has seen a little girl in his house, very clear and very real, although she wasnt there.

We all experience a very sudden coldness which is so intense, sometimes you can see your breathe, things move by themselves, sometimes when your not looking, and sometimes in front of you! my dog and 3 cats all react very strangely from time to time and one of my cats is obviously "playing" with someone, but when you go and touch her, she runs away which is not like her at all.

We have also taken lots of photos of Orbs, and one of the little girl looking through the window at us.

These are very clear, and have been taken on 3 different cameras, at different times of the day, the resulta are always the same.

I wish i had your addy so i can send you the pickies, im not scared per say, but it is very un nerving

[Loosehead]

There is a rational explanation it may take some time and effort to find but there is one. Why do you look for the irrational one first?

[quibbmedusa]

in actual fact we have gone for every rational explanation before we have gone down this route, i was, as you are sceptical up until a while ago

[mullein3]

Hi, thanks for your explaination. I would like you to describe the ghost's appearance, approximate age and whether you have experienced problems with electrical equipment in your house. I would also like to know whether you have found things in the house that have gone missing, some of which turn up at a later time. Could you tell me if the area where the cul de sac was being dug up whether there was ever housing there or what was there before the changes.

[quibbmedusa]

yes yes and yes, she is about 10 yrs old with short blonde hair, roughly 5 ft tall, she has been seen inside with a lilac dress on and outside with a sort of hood on the top.

We have had televisions stop working for no reason, lightbulbs that blow in succession throughout the house, funny smells coming from nowhere, some nice, and some not so nice.

My neighbours have had things disappear and reappear later in some really silly places.

They started digging in September, and as far as we know, we think our house stands on the land that an old farmhouse stood on, so the back of the house could have been part of the farmhouse or an out building of some sort, but on that we are not too sure.

[mullein3]

Hi again, from what you have told me I can surmise that the girl (ghost) that you see is someone that died in very tragic circumstances. They say that when someone dies they have, loved ones, or types of spirit beings, that help with the process of dying, and assisting with the journey to the spirit world that some refer to as death, and this works 99.9% of the time. But when someone has died in tragic circumstances their spirit refuses to move on to the other side and what happens is they remain in the negative energy of their death and surroundings when they were alive so to the girl the place where she lived or where she died will be real to her ad infinitum.Whenever there is building work or a disturbance of the energy around where this girl was inhabiting it will affect the world that she had previously created around her, and because of this distortion she would now be aware of the new energy of her surroundings that were created after she had died. So if you imagine that she had created her own world where she was the only one it it and because of the road works affecting her previous world, she can now be aware of yours and others existence.

If you would like some help in rectifying this problem my advice to you would be to contact your local spiritualist church and enquire if they have or could recommend any persons with experience of 'Moving on', earth bound spirits, there are also groups who specialise in this field and they call themselves 'Rescue Circles', and what they try and do is to rescue the earth bound spirit in this case the little girl and allow her spirit to move on to the other side ie the spirit world. If you do not know where your nearest spiritualist church is let me know the area where you live in the country and I will forward an address to you. All the best.

[quibbmedusa]

many many thanks for all your excellent advice Mullein3!!!! i live near Kings Lynn in Norfolk.

[mullein3]

I have been able to locate an email address of someone who lives in your general area who may be able to help. her name is Mrs June Hughes and her e mail address is [email protected]. Hope she can help and advise.