Gizzeh
French and Belgians have wills and THERE up to 60% should be left to the family. Boodiful Bernie Turkey fella's family fell out over that one.
Also it is common they say ( on m'a dit etc etc) that since the donee (recipient ) of a gift pays tax under the will, that the lucky fella sends it back and says no thank you.
In Scotland the Spouse/Civil partner and Children have more rights to claim against the estate than in the rest of the UK even if there is provision within in the will to exclude them. You are taking the correct action in speaking to your Solicitor to whom you may explain your reasons.