I feel so sad - its been 5 days now since my mum passed away and today I feel worse than ever......just can't stop crying.
Funeral isn't for another 13 days because of the holidays :-( Just wish it was all over now.
I've chosen the music but now searching for a suitable poem or reading - can anyone recommend one?
Hello yelenots. I was thinking of you, especially yesterday. Speaking from experience you have to keep reminding yourself that your dear mum is now at peace. We who are left behind really don't matter. Your mum's peace is paramount, no more pain, suffering or anguish. You now have a wealth of memories to call on, yelenots - use them to help you through this long wait until you can wish the lady goodbye. My best wishes are sent to you.
yelenots have just read this thread and want to say how sorry i am for your loss. i do understand. i still miss my mother even though she put me through a lot of trauma. you will never forget but gradually i hope the pain will ease. xx crying is quite natural and you have to let your grief out somehow. x
My Brother passes away in Oct 2013 Yel, not knowing your Mum's health, but my Brothers health was bad & he was suffering, no one likes death especialy family, but I feel for my brothers family that he is now out of his pain, just think about the good times & the times she made you laugh, Thoughts are with you.x
So very sorry for the death of your Mum yelenots. Don't worry about crying a lot, it's a release. Those poems are so moving aren't they ...... 'when tomorrow starts without me'. Very sad xxx