Does she like me ?

[*ALFIE*]

Past few days my colleague at work keeps winking at me when I talk to her. I have also noticed that she is begnning to play with her hair and at times blushes and gets nervous when we talk. Why is this ? is she trying to get my attention ? may be she nervous round men ? could it be my imagination ?

[LauraLou]

Check for too much eye-contact and copying your actions - giveaways! Eg.fold your arms and see if she moves hers

[DMA]

She has something in her eye and she has nits

[jno]

why not try responding and see what happens? Chat to her, compliment her, ask her out for a drink, whatever. If she is trying to get your attention, don't leave her to do all the work.

[kipchik]

Very funny that made me laugh but the signals she's giving out is typical when you are interested in someone,its flirting alright!If you're single and interested then why not ask her out for a drink,maybe in a group if you'd rather! you'll soon find out if she's interested!

[DMA]

women like to flirt

got to be careful

ive seen it all b4

[ll_billym]

She keeps winking at me too Alfie, I think she does it with everyone.

Only joking dude, I'm sure she likes you.

Don't let her do all the work but only suggest getting together gently, maybe in a jokey way first as you don't to make a big thing about asking her out and her say no as you've got to see her every day...

GL.

[{Dakota}]

Is this the same girl you talked of a few weeks ago Alfie? Was she not your supervisor or something and you'd decided not to dip your pen in Company ink?

Maybe I've got the wrong person.....

[laurence2]

Alfie, If the feeling is mutual feel your boots, I mean that in a nice way, Just treat her with the respect women deserve, Tho don't go to overboard.

[kipchik]

Oh yeah GO overboard when you got her!

[Drisgirl]

Alfie-is this the same one from last week?

Are u taking the Michael or were the previous answers just not what you wanted to hear.

You forgot on this occasion she had a partner.

Keep giving the deluded wee soul some hope!!!!

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[{Dakota}]

Thank you Drisgirl, I wondered if I was going mad there for a minute!

:)

[WoWo]

I was going to say the same thing Drisgirl, looks like our ALFIE might just be attention seeking.

[*ALFIE*]

No no ! I am not attention seeking. Its the same person from the thread I created last time here. Its SHE who is attention seeking (!) She is wonderful person but she isn't my type and is in a relationship anyway. I think maybe she is just playing with me just to relieve work stress. Either that or it could be entirely my imagination. Maybe I am so clogged up with work that I am imagining it all !

[{Dakota}]

Alfie, if you're not interested in her, why are you asking us?

Sorry, I just don't get what the problem is.

[Dick Cheese]

Soz, but i've asked her and she indeed is nervous around you! She thinks your weird and you smell. She's not winking at you, shes winking at the people behind you , who are in turn laughing at you cos you think you've pulled! Deep down, they all thought you were gay.

[Drisgirl]

Well said Dick Cheese!!

Although it has to be said are you the right person to accuse someone of smelling:)

Love the name!!!!

[Drisgirl]

BTW ALFIE - I hope when you said she was playing with you to relieve stress - she was under the desk:)

[*ALFIE*]

God, you're all bloody useless ? !

[Drisgirl]

Cmon ALFIE give us the goss -did you relieve her work stress.I wont breathe a word to anyone - honest:)Or did she relieve your apparent stress.Its only human nature - the tension is palpable!