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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.listen noxy i dont care if the father is fred west if he is the father his name should be on the birth certificate cos its a fact, why should the mother get that power. she could be myra. and as for wether you should base your decsion on benefits shame on those who would let that influence them. if he is a p*ick let the courts decide. the birth certificate is a statement of fact. what if he is a normal bloke who did no more than split with a woman. not all men are monsters as a matter of fact the vast majority of them are loving fathers and thats how they should be judged, just as all single mothers are not spiteful bitter women with a grudge.
it should be illegal not to put the farthers name on the birth certificate if you know who he is. give dad a chance im sure your kid will love him
dilf, As the father of 7 natural children and one stepchild I appreciate where you are coming from and when I split from my first wife I got custody of the kids because she didn't want them,(she wanted the house, the car and the money in the bank accounts) so I'm 100% aware that not all women are lovely fragrent things full of happy thoughts without a bad bone in their bodies.However I stand by what I said not the least because during my own childhhod my father beat, burned and tortured me, fracturing my skull and causing brain damage, the affects of which I still live with.
This young lady new mom ere, is clearly worried enough about having to have any contact with this man to post on a site to a load of people she doesn't know, so as it's her I'm advising ( not the baby's Dad), I could not with a good conscience tell her to do otherwise.If this man is a monster she has the power to exclude him from her life and the life of her child, if he's not I hope she is responsible enough to allow her child to see him because that child will surely benefit from having a Dad ( but only if he's a good one).She has a massive responsibility here but as long as she is sensible and reasonable he shouldn't suffer because his name isn't on a birth certificate, it just ensures that he can't make her life a misery automatically whenever he feels like it.