Would You Be Jarred Off?...

[Jenarry]

I feel like I am making a mountain out of a molehill but my bf did rubbish at
the bf doesn't make romantic gestures very often but he usually does well at valentines this year and it has left me feeling a bit unappreciated and fed up. valentines so i guess that was why I was really looking forward to Friday and a nice weekend after.
He ordered some flowers and a card to be delivered to my work but they never turned up so when I got home from work empty handed on friday he was annoyed ,but more annoyed that he had spent money and his purchase hadn't appeared than the fact that I didn't receive anything if you get my drift.
sat morning he went off to the gym and I thought he would stop somewhere and get me a little something(which is what i would do in this situation) but no he didn't. when i said to him I thought he would get me a little something he said 'well I have already spent £20 on flowers!' :O(... £20 which he is claiming back btw . he was straight onto it friday night.
I know you shouldn't give to receive but i put a bit of effort into friday. i spent half my day off earlier in the week making a homemade choc cake. bought him a big box of chocs and some fizz and made a special trip to shops for a card. ..then ended up feeling like i don't matter as much as £20. :O( how would you feel . I will brace myself for the less sympathetic responses. :o/

[woofgang]

I am going to give my usual answer. If his behaviour is a deal breaker then dump him, if not, not. Life is too short to hold grudges(get even lol) or to settle for anything less that what you want in a relationship.

[EcclesCake]

I completely agree with China.

[Mamyalynne]

As nice as gestures are, I would rather have a guy who told me he loved me every day.

[boxtops]

My views are the same as grasscarp and china - at least he tried, and I can understanding his being annoyed that what he paid for didn't turn up. IMO you're getting this really out of perspective, and making a big thing out of feeling hard done by. Get over it - other things in life and your relationship are much more important.