Chrissa
The charging order was only against your husband's interest in the property. I think - but I am far from certain - that any Court action against someone who has died has to be discontinued. It would probably be a good idea for you to get legal advice on this but I guess you can't afford a solicitor. Write to the Court as they suggest (send them a copy of the death certificate). Send it recorded delivery & keep a copy. See what their response is. I would be surprised if they say the hearing can go ahead as the defendant (your husband) is clearly unable to defend the action.
Having said all that, the debt to which the charging order relates is a debt of your husband's and will have to be paid out of the proceeds of his estate if there are funds in the estate to pay it. Please note that it is only money from his estate which has to be used to pay his debts - no-one can make you pay his debts from anything which is yours. As I said before, his interest in the house will have to be valued for probate.
As I see it, there are 2 possibilities:
1. The property was owned as joint tenants, in which case your husband's interest became yours automatically. I know that, in that case, his interest would not be part of his estate from the point of view of distributing the estate assets to beneficiaries. What I do not know is whether it also falls outside the estate from the point of view of paying debts owed by your husband. If it does, the person to whom the debt is due can only be paid from any other money or assets in the estate (after funeral expenses have been paid - they are always the first call on estate money). This issue is one on which you may well have to get legal advice if it becomes a problem; or
2. The property was owned as tenants in common. In this case your husband's interest in it is definitely part of his estate & the probate valuation of that interest will have to b